While sex is not a topic people like to speak about publically, everyone knows that they need some and there is nothing wrong with it. There are a million studies that indicate the benefits of having sex. People, who have sex on a regular basis, live longer, experience lesser heart issues, have lower anxiety and are generally happy and satisfied. While all these factors are understandable, the one issue is that to have sex you need another person. And depending on where you are in your life, it’s not always important to be in a steady relationship to get your fix. There is a lot of social stigma related to one-night stands but hey, if two people can get through it on the basis of a mutual understanding then why not?
One-night stands are best recommended for people who are not certain about where they are in their lives, well emotionally. They offer the comfort of not sitting through relationship talks/dates, not staying in bed the next morning, not emotionally investing in a commitment and just politely getting their physical fix and moving on.
The problem also lies in deciding whether you’re ready for a one-night stand. Are you okay with getting physically involved with a stranger? Will you be able to drive yourself out of it no-strings-attached? Here are six signs that you’re ready for a one-night stand.
#1 You’re not ready to get into an emotional commitment
To be able to have a one-night stand successfully, you have to be one hundred percent sure that you’re ready to fully ignore the emotion bit. One-night stands hold a no-emotion rule, if you’re free of them; you’re ready to get some.
#2 You’re absolutely sure about your expectations
Let’s face it, one-night stands, in plain words, mean CASUAL sex. So if you’re up for something that is as casual as getting up and going home after the jig is up (no pun intended) you’re ready for it. Even if you experience a hint of jitters or doubt, do not get into it.
#3 Adventure is what you’re looking for
It goes without saying, one-night stands are adventurous. They are not like a backpacking or hiking activity, but you might end up exploring things you never knew. YES, that happens. Ready to explore some downtown adventure? If the answer is yes, take the hint and start working.
#4 You’re getting out of an emotional rollercoaster and need a distraction
We all know that getting out of a deep and emotional relationship isn’t easy. If you’re dealing with something that is over and is still causing a stir in your brain, get the much-needed distraction from a hookup. Not just us, many studies have also proven the fact that one-night stands are a natural coping mechanism for breakups or even other emotional turmoils. However, please keep in mind that these are a casual distraction, do not confuse them for a relationship.
#5 You’re looking for a change
Everyone needs a small change once in a while. Whether it’s having a relationship or the lack of it, one-night stands can help. Getting physically close to someone makes your body feel a rush of hormones that have been known to uplift spirits and mood.
#6 You think double standards are BS, if a man can do it so can a woman!
For some reason, we have been tuned into thinking that one-night stands are fine for men but not for women. Well, that, is, BULL****! If a man can get out of something without giving two hoots to any feelings, so can a woman. Mutual consensus and body needs should not care about what the society thinks. The society doesn’t have to live with your choices, you have to, make yours!
